Hallo-Hi,
I'm Meilan;
also known as Ah Bee in CC or Ke Ai in McD..
Being a Singapore's pisces borned in year of wooden tiger, I'm born with almost all the typical characteristics of the two
( Of cause not ALL, thus please filter away all the negative one ok. ;p )
Overall, I think I'm generally a "warm-enough" person to be with; unless U R someone whom have ever hurt this
xiao(3) qi(4) fish..
(=^o^=)
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Wednesday, December 17, 2008
感恩就是快乐，惜副就会幸福.
一味计较，不懂珍惜至愤世嫉俗者恶果萌芽！ I ish damn 火大 when i decided to 'shout' this line.
Is sort of a family problem lai de...
Wat is the trigger?
1) Sis's facebook w topics like : $$ more impt or kinship?? ; pissed... frustrated... angry... wat has t world bcome...; wondering wat is the actual meaning of kinship?
2) Bro-in-law's msn nick : When Money Is More Important Than Kinship... Then All Is Bull Shit...**
The line 'is Bull Shit' really flip me off!!
Story behind:
I admit we sort of take mom for granted while she shower her love on us... feeling of guilt was not tat strong till recently... Feel unbalanced for her lor!!! Mom got her own little career of baby sitting a BB boy.While we all out to work, both of them will 相依为命 at home thus this BB boy will kind of stick to mom very automatically.... She baby sit for money is true, but responsibility is wat matters most lor... How can we demand her to throw tat boy aside just to look after your own kids 'full time'?When your own child cry, u as a mother should go forward instead of blaming mom 偏心 wanna look after other's kid. Mom only got one pair of hand!!!! Your child's mom is here but other's mom is not lor!!!! Someone just selfishly cannot understand this and likes to complaint about this over & over again... damn sian when u not able to stop these complaints... Mom has been 做牛做马ing for demanding sis since she gave birth. Every thing cannot wait, every small little thing will call mom do even can be carry out by own hubby, we ourselves or the other kids... all this mom just accept willingly unless she demand immediate attention n request mom to throw other's child aside... but i ish 看在眼里...especially sis like to scold tat poor little boy over little thingy just like a stepmother due to her own unbalance thinking!!! all this improved a little after I talked to her over her demanding acts... Last fri, sis got news tat her mom-in-law need to go for operation thus her 2 kids will need to come over here for a period of time few mth later... We will not reject this request although it does will create problem for my mom knowing my sis's demanding pattern... I itchy mouth go tell her: don worry la.. when your kids are here, u still got 2 mth left over de BB leave thus can come over too la... also donno if this is the trigger for her 'madness'.. she turn w a sickening face to ask mom is it they cannot come over. Both mom & me explained tat we got no ill-intendion, no one will forbid her to come. my statement is just a silly no meaning de question nia... BUT at this time, she really is lost control & insist tat mom already gave her face tat means "DON WAN THEM HERE"!!!! Really donno how true is tat but i don feel it at all and mom say she never did anything lor... The next thing we know is she packing her room & her everything, left the house when her hubby came back tat night. Came back the next day silently to take her left over barang barang, 2 person's face was so black & long and don wanna answer when mom try to talk!!! Sickening lor. Failed to let her 息怒 a little by trying to talk or sms her... her ans & reaction cut off all communications... Really is 无理取闹 lor, we have been trying so hard to put up on her & yet she act tat way... damn sian & disturbed for days.... Conclusion:damn disappointed to find they never appreciate or 反省 a little by now & still feel tat they are not wrong in any way & my mom's 偏心ness & her need for money from baby sitting is to be blamed. ^%*(##$&+$#%Also donno how long will these drama last..
------------------------------------------------------I ish damn missed my little BB nephew tat i have been carrying for 2 mths. He is on my hand most of the time unless go bath, sleep, shit leh... Suffer from withdrawal syndromes le...
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